Virginia Thomas requests apology from Anita Hill

Bitter ass Virginia Thomas, the wife of infamous Clarence Thomas, Supreme Court Justice and poster child for sexual harassment at the workplace, contacted Ms. Anita Hill 19 years after testifying that Justice Thomas had come on to her while in his employ.

Ms. Thomas to Ms. Hill:
"I just wanted to reach across the airwaves and the years and ask you to consider something. I would love you to consider an apology sometime and some full explanation of why you did what you did with my husband. So give it some thought and certainly pray about this and come to understand why you did what you did. OK, have a good day,"

This obviously has been eating at her for literally 19 years, and I guess she pushes through all of the jumpoff rules and goes after the #2 woman. I mean, how junior-high-ish to contact the other woman when your man is the only one you should be talking to. Get your man straight and there would be no #2's, ho's, jump-off's, etc's...

Ms. Hill replies that the call was inappropriate, but had Ms. Thomas called me, Ms. Thomas would NEVER EVER AGAIN call another jump-off. So for the Ms. Thomas' of the world, let me make a statement, not as a jump-off, but as a considerate woman passing along a little bit of game.

Calling the other woman only makes you look like an idiot who cares about a dog that doesn't even love you enough to be honest about the status of your relationship. A  man worth checking ho's for is a committed man totally devoted to you and honestly comes to you to scrape some scallywag off of him....like, hey...my man told me you have been pushing up on him and that you said what I don't know wont hurt me....Is this true? This is perfectly okay.



But if you hear rumors that your man is getting it in with some young cute broad...go to the source...YOUR MAN. Don't go to the woman, don't smear her name, don't embarrass yourself. Painting the walls with your business only temporarily specticalizes your joke-of-a-relationship and make you look like a fool. If you care enough to do something, dig in his ass. Tell him you no longer respect him, tell him he hurt you, describe in full detail your boundaries and limitations. Involving the other woman only makes the crowd compare you against the other woman and ultimately demotes the wife to a mere woman holding on to a diminishing relationship that no person would be proud to be in.

In my hey day wifey calls me to, like Ms. Thomas, reach across the airwaves, lol. Called me all kind of ho's and b's, told me she was going to find me and drag me like a rag doll, called me stupid for messing with him - like I was chasing him...when in truth he was chasing me! He was the liar, he said he wasn't married, didn't even claim this wife. He was ready to trick his money and do whatever whenever to play. He called me non-stop, told me all about his family, brought his son to meet me, took me out, introduced me to his friends, spent crazy time trying to be in my presence....what was considered to me as dating.

So I say Ms. Thomas, You're calling me when you should be speaking with your husband, loosely termed, mostly about his pursuance of me. I'm not the ho, I'm simply single, he's the dog. I may be naive to not follow him home, but unlike you, I'm not crazy / I don't care about him like that. I just met him. Now that I know about his relationship, it's over. But I feel that I'm the one who won. I got to meet someone else while Ms. Thomas is still married to him calling the next woman, holding on to bitterness 19 years later, lol.

How I see it, If you want to be married, marry a man that wants to be married and commits equally. Til death is serious, but to me, once adultery has been committed, all bets are off. If I stay with him beyond some cheating, it's because there is some benefit that I'm holding onto that means something to me, like family. Things like family can be created with another, you can buy new houses, start over again, and re-offer yourself to the world more mature and wise.

One thing I have learned is that life waits for no one. Fantasizing about an idea or shoulda, coulda, woulda'ing everything in your mind is not living. Live fully in the world, because we only get one shot, you gotta make it count. I'll be damned before I spend my whole life un-happy, chasing validation, and being embarrassed each time I fall in public with a man I married.

Ms. Thomas (clearing my throat) leave that ho and get over being cheated on...there's happiness out there for you.