Okay so, this woman has a man that is a married truck driver that she's been, let's say seeing, for over a decade. Now I understand most things, but why succumb to being the second woman, the lesser important woman, the less supported woman, the lesser woman? Shouldn't this relationship have soured by now - should've. Shouldn't the wife have found out by now and put an end to this - should've. Shouldn't the lesser woman have desired by now more attention and love? .....more committment and respect? gosh I'm stupefied.
If I sound judgmental, it's because I hate a weak woman. Do something for yourself. Don't dwell. Love yourself, your children, God! It's a marvelous thing in what happens to self confidence when you assess your life, assume responsibility, and count it all 'Life 101'. It's just hard to see a beautiful sister having such a blind eye to the way things should work and not knowing when to say this is not how it goes.
So another lady has a hard time finding a good guy. My advice to a woman that doesn't meet anyone or anyone desirable (clearing throat): sit down in front of a mirror and look at yourself. If you look good then it's your personality. Work on whichever one or both. Here's a trick - find men you'd accept for your husband then look at their wives. If you don't fit well within their circle of wives then that's why you can't have that type of man. It's safe to say that if you find a man who's family is just like yours - that might be your match.
I've found that the most important factor that a man can employ is knowing yourself.......your abilities, what you like, what you don't like, how to conduct yourself and business, what you will allow, how to have fun, how to seduce a man, how to clean a home, how to pick up a fallen baton and finish the race.....etc. The rules are blurred when you bring more to the table than sexual abilities and good looks. Learn how to tie a cherry stem with your tongue, and don't be shamed to take a parenting seminar. Let's be real for just a second.......Men like smart women. Be that.
Okay so, this woman has a man that is a married truck driver that she's been, let's say seeing, for over a decade. Now I understand most things, but why succumb to being the second woman, the lesser important woman, the less supported woman, the lesser woman? Shouldn't this relationship have soured by now - should've. Shouldn't the wife have found out by now and put an end to this - should've. Shouldn't the lesser woman have desired by now more attention and love? .....more committment and respect? gosh I'm stupefied.
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I see that you like to down talk the OTHER woman when really SHE is not the fool. The fool, to me, is the wife who fools herself into thinking that bc she's first she's the shit. She's really just stomped on LIKE she's she's shit. The other woman doesn't have anything to lose but time. The wife is losing her respect, her change at being the only mother of his kids (i.e., Mathew Knowles) and basically she's a wife for nothing. She's just wasting her time calling herself a wife. Hell, unless she doesn't work and is WELL taken care of by her husband, the wife is just another woman he's running game on. And the sad part is, she's got the MOST game being ran on her. I hate a pitiful wife. The other woman can just move on TODAY to a single man. The wife can only leave in shame. Or be LEFT in shame if the husband finds something better.
Listen, after advising a freind for years to leave a man that is cunning enough to keep his secret well and means my FRIEND no good - I speak, not talk down.
ReplyDeleteThe wife doesn't know and is at home chilling with her friends or probably on the phone with him right now.
I'd agree but short of finding this woman to tell her - I can only say that the woman he sees, who knows she's wrong - is wrong. Which she is. MAybe the wife felt something or figured as much when he didn't answer the phone, but if this has continued thus far - he's probably double checking to make sure she doesn't find out.
I'm talking about the wives who DO know that her man cheats... and look the other way. I'm talking about the Shontae's of the world (Snoop's wife) who proudly proclaim, "He's coming home to me." Coming home to you with WHAT? Nothing but an STD and some lies.
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